Sep 12, 2008

Birth Day

Well, I rushed the pictures to press quickly so that eager grandparents, aunties and uncles (both the biological ones and the honorary ones), and Elijah lovers in general could get a look, but now I finally have a little bit of time to tell the story of his journey into our world and into our hearts.

It all began at around 2:30 A.M. on Sunday morning, August 31, 2008. Babs and I had turned in early the night before--I had just returned from our annual REAL Christian Theater retreat ande Babs had enjoyed a restful Sabbath at home. We'd gone to bed expecting to have a productive holiday weekend getting the house cleaned up and making final preparations for Elijah's arrival. Well it turned out that the weekend would indeed be extraordinarily productive--far more than we were ready for. The power had just come back on about ten minutes earlier, when suddenly Babs let out a yelp of shock. I thought maybe a roach had dropped on her or something, but instead she uttered those fateful words: "My water just broke."

We couldn't have been less prepared. The bag for the hospital wasn't even packed. Still, within an hour we'd managed to get some things together and were on our way to the hospital. Before we left, Babs insisted we pause to take the following--Bab's last photo of her pregnancy:


Last Preganant Photo: In the wee hours of Sunday, August 31, 2008

We arrived at the hospital around 4:00 A.M. and about a half hour later I started recording her contractions.

The morning passed quietly. The contractions were mild, not much more than a little twinge, and Babs wasn't in any pain. The decision was made, however, to induce labor and around 11 in the morning they gave her the medicine that would soon

Babs chats on the phone with her mom. Morning, August 31.

If only labor was this easy the whole time: Babs chills out with her coloring book to stay relaxed.


About an hour later the meds kicked in and things got serious. Babs was remarkably strong through it all. I was so proud of her and so awed by her ability to endure through it. Our dear friend Carol was by her side through the entire process, and we were both so gratful. She knew just what to do and say to help Babs.

Everything happened much more quickly than we anticipated--from the start of the painful contractions until the final push, it was only about four hours!

I'll never forget the feeling of seeing my son come into the world. It was so surreal, it was almost as if he were being created right then and there before my eyes. The rush of emotions--joy, excitement, awe, gratitude, and even fear was overwhelming.

Elijah's first minutes


More video of Elijah just after birth.


No photos please: Elijah fends off the paparazzi!

After the initial clean up that you saw in the videos they took our little fellow away from us for awhile. I missed him so much and it seemed like forever before they finally brought him back to Barbara's room to spend the night with us. I slept on a mat on the floor next to Barbara's bed and Elijah slept in his little hosptial bassinet on the other side of the bed. We felt like a little family.

We could have been discharged the next day but we decided to stay an extra night. Saipan was enduring some of the worst power outages to date, and we figured it would be easier to stay in the hospital rather than have to go home and deal with a darkened, stuffy house for twelve or more hours all together.


Babs and Elijah with one of my former students and her son, who is about a year older than Elijah.

In Daddy's Arms

On Tuesday, September 2, we checked out of the hospital and returned home, taking Elijah with us of course. The adventure of a lifetime was only just beginning!



Welcome home litle one: Elijah meets his "older sister", Kimo.

It's now closing in on two weeks since Elijah was born and we love him more and more with each passing day. The first few days at home were hectic to say the least. We slept little and every waking hour was focused on our baby. Fortunately, I had a week of paternity leave so I was able to be home with Babs and Elijah all through last week, and so I was able to be there to help. It took awhile for Elijah to learn to feed properly--those early sessions were tough. But eventually he caught on. He developed a case of jaundice but that is beginning to fade away now. Since birth he's learned to eat and he's learned to cry (boy has he learned how to cry!) Right now life pretty much revolves around his sleeping, feeding, burping and pooping, and crying. It's getting easier now than it was last week, but it's still pretty tiring work being a parent. I know we couldn't have done it without the help of dear friends like Carol, Amy, Andrea Stafford, and Jaimie and Rhonda who come over on a rotating basis to help us in the evenings so Babs can rest and I can get other non-baby things done (like this blog). We're deeply appreciative and touched by the help they've given us these past two weeks.

It's been an adventure so far and we can't wait for each new day with our precious son.

Here's an interesting fun fact about the Maycock family. All three of us have birthdays in August and all of us have the number 3 in our birthdates. My birthday is August 3, Barbara's is August 13 and now Elijah is August 31. Pretty cool, huh!




Sep 6, 2008

For the Nonas


Our Elijah. You can see the touch of jaundice Elijah developed after a few days. The condition in which the skin and whites of the eyes turn yellow is very common among newborns, and even more so for newborns that are born between 36 and 38 weeks. Elijah was born at 37 weeks. According to the doctors, his case is mild and in fact, it seems to be already clearing up a little bit.



My mom has been asking me to post more pictures of Elijah for days now so I must oblige her. So to those of you who don't enjoy looking at baby pictures. . .too bad! This one is for the Nonas (as I'm sure Grandma Leen is eager to see more photos of her grandson too).



Wide-eyed! I took this photo just a few hours before posting, so this is the most recent picture we have of him.

At the hospital

In his crib at home

It's not good to have your baby sleep in the car seat, but some times. . .well, it's just SO effective at soothing them that sometimes you just give in. We thought this was so funny. Elijah was fast asleep and at one point he just stuck out his hands and his feet as if he were flying. So cute!


The "siblings." Kimo's been really great since Elijah got home. Babs read about how to prepare your dog for a new baby and we did it when we brought Elijah home. Babs went in first with a used onesie of Elijah's for Kimo to smell. Then we brought in Elijah, being careful not to let her get too close. Since then she's been great. She seems to be very accepting of her "replacement." Of course she only gets to see him from a distance and this is the closest they've ever been with the two of them sleeping--Elijah, safe in his portable crib and Kimo on the floor.

In the car seat for the first time. Thanks to Frank, Ethel and little Kyle Diesta for lending us their car seat for the ride home from the hospital. Lucky for us, our car seat came in the mail that same day so we could return it right away.

Sleeping Child.

O Eli
There's a sanctity in your innocence
A certain beauty and no uncertain strength
That brings me to the faith
I don't know if I
If I am climbing to or falling in
But it comes like grace from your tiny hands
When I hold you in mine
And I pray that the eyes
Of your heart
Shine bright
With the hope to which your called
And may you know with all the saints
The height, the depth, the width, and the length
Of the love of God

O Eli
There's a joy in your sweet abandon
Like the cowgirl ballerina
Leaves that ride
The wild and holy bucking wind that the sky
Sent through you to blow away these walls I've built
Walls of selfishness and walls of guilt
That leave me free to be a child.

--Rich Mullins "Eli's Song"


Babs does not want Elijah to be nicknamed Eli, but this song is so beautiful and so perfect for him that I used it any way.

Aug 31, 2008

Welcome Elijah William Maycock

Elijah William Maycock, born Sunday, August 31, 2008 at 4:18 P.M. and weighing in at 6 lbs 14.5 oz. Welcome to the world, Elijah! Daddy loves you so much already!


He's here! And what a journey. There is much to tell but I don't have time now. I've slipped away from the hospital strictly to meet the demands for pictures from family and friends. We go home tomorrow, and as the power is on (and as I have time between helping Babs with Elijah) I will fill you in all the details. We are SO HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry there are so few pictures. . .We have tons, but Carol and Amy are with Babs and Elijah at the hospital and I said I'd be back by 4:30 and it's already 4:38. I promise more pictures (and video) will come as soon as I can.

(A big thanks to Amy for letting me use her computer to post these photos and to the Stafford family for letting me use the internet connection at their house. The power was off in our village so I couldn't post from home or school).
The Happy Family! Babs is my hero. You shoulda seen her!
All bundled up!
Here he is literally just minutes old. Our first family portrait.
He loves to put his hands in his mouth.

Believe it or not, Elijah's a pretty quiet baby. I know this looks like a full-on wail but it was actually a more dignified, mewling type of grumbling. Everytime he makes those noises I'm utterly charmed. He gave his first full-throated wail when we took him away from Babs this morning so that she could get some sleep. However, I was able to calm him down so he could sleep too.
He's cool as a cucumber!
A full body shot, not too many minutes after birth.

Aug 22, 2008

Second Saipan Sabbath


The teachers at San Juan Beach, Sabbath afternoon, August 16, 2008: From left, Amy, Nicole, Angie, Cristina, Jaimie, and Rhonda.

On the second Sabbath in Saipan for most of our new teachers on Saipan (it was Rhonda's first Sabbath), we took them down to San Juan Beach on the eastern side of the island. This is was the launching point for Grant and I's "Lost" adventure and the location for our Boys Campout. It was also one of our stops on that fabled Last Day with the 4Runners this past June. We returned once again this to these historic sands this past Sabbath afternoon. The waves were really big, and out at sea the water churned and boiled. The sea was restless and raging and our teachers felt a taste of her power.


The Baptism

Cristina, Jaimie, and Rhonda get washed:




I'm pretty sure that this is representative of what it's been like for our new teachers as they've begun their year of teaching--like they've been hit by a huge wave that's knocked them off their feet and scratched them up a bit. But they're getting back up and welcoming the next swell. They're doing great!




Angie, Rhonda, Jaimie, Nicole, and Cristina.

For Britni



Hey Brit. . . a couple of little people--not so little anymore--wanted to say hi and wish you well.

A lot may have changed at SDA in the past two years. The ones who were in kindergarten then are now practially grown-up second graders. They've a new a teacher and even new uniforms.

But when I asked them if they remembered their kindergarten teacher, they all shouted joyfully, "Miss Britni!!!!!"

Britni, the gift you gave these kids--the love and the learning--continues to grow.

The Road to Rhonda


God gives the best birthday presents: Bab's gets a priceless gift on the eve of her birthday, her final elementary school teacher, for grades 3 and 4, Rhonda Prokopetz.

“. . .they left everything and followed Him.”
--Luke 5:11

I read those words about the disciples who left their nets and fishing boats, tax collection tables and sordid lives, and followed Him, and I always thought it was a bit of hyperbole. I mean surely, the disciples didn’t just literally drop everything and follow Him on the spot, right? And even if they did, such dramatic gestures of discipleship no longer happen today, right? I mean the nature of Jesus’ simple invitation to “follow Me” must have been remarkably compelling to elicit such a response of such sudden and certain commitment.

But lately, I’ve come to think I’ve sold God and the persuasive nature of His call a little short. I think maybe the disciples did drop everything on the spot and follow Him. And I have come to believe that even today there are those who leave it all behind at a moments notice to answer His call. I believe this because I’ve met a few talented and daring young women who’ve done exactly that. They heard the call, saw the opportunity, and they answered at once. They left, without a backward glance, with only months, weeks, and even days to prepare. Without a doubt the call was compelling and could not be ignored.

Babs began her recruiting for new staff early this year—the last thing she wanted was to be heavy with child and still scrambling around in the summer looking for teachers. Her ideal would be to have everyone in place by the time last school year ended. A nice final Friday letter with photos and short bios of next year’s teachers would be perfect. But God had other plans, and under His plan, there would be no doubt that each new teacher that arrived in Saipan, arrived at His call, and not by our own power. So, like the number of Gideon’s men dwindled, the time left before we needed our teachers also dwindled. From God’s point of view, six months was too soon to hire new teachers. Three months was still too soon. One month? Well, now that’s a little bit more like it. Two or three weeks? Better still. A few days? Just right.

The funny thing is that Barbara could have had that nice little new-staff lineup by the end of last school year. There were lots of applicants for all the open positions, and many of the applicants were sharp, qualified folks. But Babs was waiting to hear from God, and until she did she steadfastly refused to hire. If there’s one thing Barbara’s learned over the years, it’s that it pays to listen to God, and it costs too much not to listen. And so, when the school year ended, Barbara had conducted dozens of interviews and talked with many bright and promising candidates, but so far had only one teacher—Nicole French, the pioneer of the group—the first to get the Call.

Nicole French, the first member of our new team!

But of course Barbara and Nicole weren’t the only ones listening to God this summer. There was Megan McCollum browsing through her church bulletin in Maryland when an announcement about the need for teachers in Saipan caught her eye. It looked like a great opportunity and she took the Call. Inside a month she’d be on her way to a new home in Saipan.

Megan
Jaimie Nickell was working at summer camp and heard an inspiring talk by someone who knew a little bit about being swept away on one of God’s amazing adventures—one Judith Edwards. She and Jude talked, and Jaimie heard the Call.

Jaimie Nickell, chilled out as always.

Cristina Sanchez’s name was one among three hundred on a list Barbara’s former boss Keith Rodman had passed on to her. Cristina had had a brief talk with Keith on one of his recruitment visits almost a year earlier and never heard anything more. She’d all but given up on the prospect of going overseas for mission work when the Call came in the form of an e-mail from Barbara in her inbox.

Cristina Sanchez with one of our students.

Angie Perez got the Call at church when Ken and Crystal Pierson gave a presentation about the mission in Saipan and mentioned the need for teachers. Ten days later, Angie landed in Hawaii, on her way to a year as a kindergarten teacher in Saipan.

Angie with the ones who delivered the Call to her, Ken & Crystal Pierson.

All of these women heard the Call and responded with amazing speed, but their response was positively sedate compared with the blistering speed with which Rhonda Prokopetz dropped her nets, cancelled her plans, jumped on a plane, and dove into her new job as our third and fourth grade teacher.

Rhonda's arrival in Saipan. August 12, 2008.

Here’s how it went down:

When Tuesday morning, August 5 dawned bright and clear, Rhonda Prokopetz was signed up for a six-week stint as a subsitute teacher in Majuro. After that, she’d return to the states and continue with her meticulously planned and carefully ordered life. By the time the sun set that day, that carefully laid out plan had evaporated and everything had changed.

Meanwhile Barbara was in Saipan, praying pleading, with God. Time had just about run out and she was still one teacher short at the elementary school. To find a quality teacher who could make it to Saipan in time to start school seemed a virtual impossibility. If no teacher materialized, Babs knew she’d have to teach, and with her baby due in less than two months, this too was an impossibility. Of course, God specializes in impossible situations, and Barbara knew that. She just knew which impossibility she’d prefer.

Back in Hawaii, I too was praying, and I confess I was getting a little cranky. “Okay, God we get it. We saw how you were able to pull Judith out of nowhere at the last possible minute last year. God will provide. . .lesson learned. So could we just have a normal provision this time? Please?” I imagine God smiled ruefully. He knew what He was doing, and soon we’d know too.

So the morning progresses and Jaimie mentions to Rhonda that there’s an urgent need for a third and fourth grade teacher in Saipan. And for some reason—the light goes on in Rhonda’s mind. She gets the call. “Follow Me.” It was clear, unmistakable, undeniable. She knew she had to go to Saipan. She goes to find Jeannie Vories, the missions coordinator at Walla Walla University.

Around lunch time, Jeannie bustles up to me. “Did Jaimie tell you? She has a friend who wants to go to Saipan!” Yeah, yeah, I know, I reply, blasé. I know there is some friend in the States who is entertaining thoughts of coming out to teach in the pre-school.
“No, no. She’s here in Hawaii. She’s going to Majuro but it’s only for six weeks.” My ears perk up. In short order, I meet Rhonda and I’m thrilled to discover that not only is she another acquaintance of Judith’s from summer camp, but she’s also a Kelowna girl and a long time family friend of none other than Mai!

I call up Barbara, tell her I think I may have someone. We set up an interview, and Babs knows within minutes that she wants to hire this woman. Babs makes a decision that is exceedingly rare for her—she hires Rhonda on the spot.

Granted, Rhonda isn’t scheduled to leave Majuro until September 22 (two days after Elijah’s due date) but at least she’s coming. We can muddle through till then. God chuckles and says, “You ain’t seen nothing yet.” As we begin negotiations with Jim Spiva the principal of the school in Majuro, to see if we can bring her over a little sooner, the date moves up to somewhere between September 8 and 11—a much better time frame.

And then late that night, Jim says he thinks he could get someone else to substitute in the class Rhonda was to teach thus freeing her up to come to Saipan, in a week or two.

And so Wednesday morning, August 6, Rhonda flies to Majuro, but now knows that within a month she’ll be in Saipan. I fly home later that same day, relieved that our last elementary teaching position is finally filled.

But wait there’s more. . . God’s not finished yet.

On Monday, August 11, Barbara calls up Majuro and Jim informs her that he was able to cover Rhonda’s position—she’s free to come to Saipan whenever she’s ready. So Barbara gets on the phone with Rhonda and asks her when she’ll be ready to come to Saipan.

“I can come tomorrow,” she say. Unbelievable!

Okay, she can hop on a flight and arrive Tuesday night.. But school starts on Thursday. It would be ludicrous to expect her to be ready to teach on the first day of school with only 24 hours to prepare . . .buuut, what the heck, why not?

“Could you be ready to teach by Thursday?”

“Absolutely.”


Rhonda and Jaimie: Fellow workers at camp for the summer; colleagues at the SDA School for this school year. I'm guessing friends for life.


And here’s the kicker. She really was ready. Rhonda landed Tuesday night, August 12, and on Wednesday, August 13, Barbara’s birthday, she whipped her classroom into a welcoming, beautiful environment; hammered out a classroom management plan; and planned her first day. What had taken the rest of us—even a veteran like me—days to do, this whirlwind of a woman did in hours. And she did it with the plucky spirit, can-do confidence, and professional quality that I can tell are going to be her trademarks throughout the year.


Rhonda in her classroom, ready to roll on the first day of school. Her fourth graders would have been Mai's student's last year and Shannon Gerber's--another Kelowna, British Columbia native-- in Kindergarten. These Kelowna-taught kids are liable to have a Canadian accent by the time they leave our school!

That’s the greatest blessing about Rhonda and all of her fellow disciples who dropped everything to come to Saipan. They aren’t just enthusiastic, they are effective. They aren’t just committed, they are dedicated. They aren’t just willing, they are able. This year’s team shows a remarkable commitment to excellence and a passion for their students. They work hard, they learn fast, they never settle for less. They’re just the type of teachers we need anchoring the school in this particularly eventful year for Babs and me.

As with Judith, last year, I’m reminded by Rhonda and her colleagues this year, that God will provide. And when He provides, He provides the best. We can trust Him to care for His school and for His work here in Saipan.

To my new friend and teammates I would say, when the way grows dark and the work weighs heavy and daunting, remember Who called you and keep on following Him.

Aug 15, 2008

Back in Saipan


The new team strikes a pose at Mt. Tapochau, ready to rock a new year! In the front, from left to right: Nicole French (7/8 homeroom and science teacher), Cristina Sanchez (1/2 classroom), Twyla (new dental hygienist).
In the middle: Megan "Mocca" McCollum (office assistant), Babs,Angie Perez (kindergarten teacher), Jaimie Nickell (pre-school teacher, Crystal Pierson.
In the back: Andrea Stafford (wife of one of our dentists, Mike Stafford) with her daughter, and Mike Stafford (dentist at the clinic) and his son. Missing are the photographers Ken Pierson and me, and also Amy Foote, our preschool director who had to take some of the students who went with us home and so left the Island tour earlier.

I'm back in Saipan and all things are new once again, as they are every year at this time. A new school year, a new team of colleagues, even a new dental hygienist over at the clinic--and very soon now, a new member of the Maycock family. It's a new chapter in our lives and it promises to be the most adventurous one yet!

I landed back in Saipan on Thursday evening, August 7, with Nicole, Megan, Cristina, and Jaimie (Angie arrived the next afternoon, flying through Japan). Friday, began the traditional round of activities that begin a new school year in Saipan. The teachers got their CNMI driver's licenses, officially making them local residents; picked up their health cards; and got their first look at their island home.

Friday night, the new team gathered for the first time at our house for a candlelight supper of pasta, salad, and garlic bread. The pasta was courtesy of one of our favorite Italian restaurants, Capricciossa's, the salad was Barbara's signature Greek mix, and the candlelight was courtesy of the Commonwealth Utilities Corporation who welcomed the new teachers with a Saipan blackout.

Jamie, Nicole, and Megan eating by candlelight.

Returning veteran Amy Foote, our preschool director, hamming it up with the son of one our school board members.

Our preschool teachers, all returning veterans, load up on pasta at the dining room table.

Yay! The power is back! Note Nicole wastes no time in whipping out her laptop to surf the net.

On Sabbath the teachers were introduced to the church:


Babs, far right introduces (from l to r) Angie, Cristina, Megan, Nicole and Jaimie at church on Sabbath morning, August 9, 2008. What's truly remarkable is that a month earlier only one of these women--Nicole French--had any idea she'd be spending the next year in Saipan.


For Sabbath School a new musical group debuted: "The Clinic Boys" featuring dental director Ken Pierson, dentist Mike Stafford, maintanance chief Rolly Verzon, office staff member Frank Diaz, and chief financial officer Ernie Lacorte. They sounded pretty good!

This photo's for Judith! That's one of "your" kids enjoying the pop rocks you sent him!

Sabbath afternoon, we took the new teachers out for the traditional First Sabbath Island Tour. We hit all the key spots--Banzai, the Last Command Post, Bird Island, the Grotto, Suicide Cliff and even managed to make it up to Mt. Tapochau in time for sunset.



Nicole, Jaimie, and Megan soaking up the Saipan sun. It was a hot afternoon!

Checking out Bird Island.

In the Grotto

All new teachers have to have a photo with the Pierson Truck! Megan's in the center with Angie, Cristina, Jaimie, and Nicole surrounding her clockwise.

It was a remarkable afternoon. In addition to being unsually hot, the water was very calm and clear. You could actually see the currents running in the sea (they're the lighter streaks in the water pictured above). The sky didn't look particularly clear--there were clouds and some haze--but the visibility was incredible. We could see Anatahan, the next island north of Saipan and the home to an active volcanco, from Suicide Cliff. You can see it too, if you click on this photo to make it bigger--the outline of the island is in the center of the photo. From the top of Mt. Tapochau we could see Tinian, Goat Island, and even Rota to the south of us.

The gang gathers at the crest of Suicide Cliff


Standing on top of the world--the peak of Mt. Tapochau: On the left is our new dental hygeinist at the clinic, Twyla (her last name seems to have slipped my mind, but when I remember it I will return and edit this post to add it in). She inherits Bev's mantle and so far displays a similar active and adventurous spirit. I'm looking forward to getting to know her better.

Angie and Nicole windblown at the summit of Topochau.

I love this photo of Babs! Man, I'm a lucky guy!

Babs n' Me--ready for what comes next. . .